Today I have a special treat for y'all! I asked Brooklyne from Showers of Blessings (her blog is fantastic and why aren't you following her??) to do a guest post, and she graciously agreed—so, without further interruptions (interruptions = me talking), let's get right to Brooklyne's post: 10 Tips for a Good Day. (I'm splitting this into two posts, so double the fabulousness!)
(One fun tidbit: I met Brooklyne in person last November, and it was amazing!!)
Hey everyone! My name is Brooklyne and I am honored to be guest posting here on Twin Thoughts! First, to tell you a little bit about myself… I am a homeschool graduate with a passion for writing the words God has placed on my heart. I live on a farm with some of the most amazing people who I am blessed to call my family. Some would call me a Jane Of All Trades because I have many hobbies and interests, a few of those would be the following: woodworking, soap making, painting, gardening, spending time with our animals, etc. I am currently a aspiring indie author and graphic designer. I’m learning all sorts of things while I build my brand as a small business owner selling handmade items. I blog over at Showers of Blessings, and I love “meeting” new blogger friends. My favorite color is blue, nature is my happy place, and frozen hot chocolate drinks are da bomb!
But enough about me, lets get into this post shall we?
Ten Tips for a Good Day. First off, we all have different definitions of a “good” day. To me, a good day looks like being productive, working hard, having fun, and finding time for not only the things on our mile long to-do lists but also things that bring us joy. Yeah, that’s all great, but lets face it, not all days are as picture perfect as the one I just described up above. So how do we turn our mundane, normal days into good days? I’m happy to be sharing some tips that seem to help me have better days and I hope you can gain something from them too!
Number One // Choosing an Attitude of Gratitude
It might sound cheesy, but it’s true. Every good day starts with a good attitude and a positive mindset. So when we make that choice to have an attitude of gratitude (choosing joy, if you will) then we are already setting ourselves up for success and half the battle for a good day is already won.
Some ways to start off with the right attitude are the following: making a list of what your thankful for, take a walk, pray, write a favorite Bible verse on a 3x5 card and stick it in your pocket as a reminder, etc.
Number Two // Prioritizing What’s Most Important
Decide what’s most important to you and make that your top priority. Whether it be family, your writing, your job, what you’re passionate about, a project you are working on, etc. Find what matters most and don't hesitate to make time for it, even if that means saying “no” to something or someone. Trust me, as a people pleaser myself, I know how hard it is to say that you’ll pass on something in order to keep time open for something more important. But in order to feel productive at the end of your day, you have to prioritize, because you can’t do everything all at once.
Number Three // Stop Tearing Yourself Down
How can we have a good day when we are constantly tearing ourselves down? Both physicality (by overworking ourselves) or mentally. Sometimes we are so hard on ourselves that it just ruins the rest of our day.
The truth is, you're not perfect. You make mistakes. You sleep in. You have a cheat meal. You are late to the meeting. You mess up that painting. You have an awkward introduction. You forgot to do your morning devotion. Whatever the case may be…
So stop tearing yourself (and others) down and start building yourself up. You make mistakes, but you’re not giving up. You slept in, but you still got up and around so you could tackle your day. You had a cheat meal, but are determined not to make it a cheat week. You were late to that meeting, but you learned for next time to plan ahead. You messed up that painting, but was able to fix it with some creative problem solving. You had an awkward introduction, but it was much more awkward in your head that in reality. You forgot your morning devotion, but decided tomorrow you would try harder. You get the picture!
Stop tearing yourself down, because once you show yourself some grace, your day is going to look a whole lot brighter.
Number Four // When You Hit the Snooze, A Good Morning You’ll Loose
I can’t stress enough that mornings are when I feel the most productive. It may just be me, but when I get up with my alarm (and not the annoying snooze that is really just a tease) then I can have a satisfying morning. Morning routines are gold. When you get up, you should know the plan and start your morning. If you don’t know the plan, you’re liable to stay in your pajamas all day…
In the mornings, I like to workout. When I get a workout in, I feel—well, tired and sore— but also ready and productive. After my workout, I do animal chores and have breakfast. Then I get started on the agenda for the day.
When our mornings are filled with things that will give us energy for the rest of the day, then we will feel so much more productive by the time 3:00 o’clock rolls around and we are starting to slow down and feel less motivated.
Number Five // Block out your time
This one is similar to Number Two. But the cool thing is, you get to decide what you do in a day (well, for the most part.) So take advantage of that and block out your time so you know what needs to be done and when.
If you need to write but find yourself caught up in other things, block out time for writing. Set a goal that you will write for one hour at 5:00PM. Then when 5:00 o’clock comes around, go sit down and set your timer.
Blocking time like this can be super helpful for some people, but for others, it doesn’t work as well. Some need more of a flexible schedule. But give it a try and see if it works for you!
Such great tips! Thank you so much, Brooklyne!! (also that bit about not hitting your snooze button—I'm COMPLETELY with you on that one! It makes such, such a difference!) (unless you're like me and sometimes to go back to sleep once you move from the bed to the chair...)
Come back next week for five more tips for a good day!
